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Getting your ex back is a slippery slope and is not always rewarding. It's no wonder that the term get my ex back, get back with my ex, how to get my ex back, or any similar combination are searched on Google? over one million times a month. That's a lot of people searching for answers on how to win back the devotion of their life. The discouraging reality is that most of these searches will produce results filled with gimmicks, tricks, and mind games that at best will temporarily attract the attention of the love you are trying to gain.
For a more lasting result and one that will have your ex once again falling over themselves to be with you - you should look no further than yourself for the answers. It is extremely important to understand that attraction is not a choice! I'll say it again. Attraction is not a choice. Although there are numerous of factors that affect drawing power, the one thing that is certain is that attraction it is an emotion and not a decision.
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Faith in oneself is developed when you become connected with who you are. Let me explain. Have you ever run across someone who was not the best looking person, but still had an extremely attractive way about them? That's confidence. When someone is so comfortable in their own skin and connected with who they are, the traditional things society labels as [url=http://team-highmoove.mtxserv.fr/index.php?file=Guestbook]barbour pas cher soldes Mariton LUMP veut réduire le[/url] attractive are thrown out the window. It is [url=http://www.riad-marrakesh.fr]abercrombie[/url] as if they somehow defy the laws of attraction.
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Since confidence is found by those who are comfortable with themselves and confidence equals attraction, and your goal is to re-attract your ex. Then the answer can be found in you reconnecting with yourself and [url=http://www.riad-marrakesh.fr]abercrombie pas cher[/url] once again becoming comfortable with who you are. It is through this process that your ex will see you in a new light. But here's the best part. By the time you evolve to this level of confidence, you may find that you are no longer fascinated in your ex as you may have opened up a world of new capabilities.
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These 10 tips to get your ex back focus on what many refer to as the no contact rule. The first month or two following a separation is most often filled with decisions, choices, and words spoken that destroy any hope of your ex once again finding you attractive. So now is the time to save the pity party and do what you came here to do. Your goal here is to if possible all communication and connections with your ex. If you are in a situation where this is unfeasible, you will want to severely limit communication to pertinent items only such as children, bills, business, etc.
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(2). Don't call them: Enough said on this point.
(3). Don't text them: All of the rules mentioned above apply to text. Especially to text. This includes the ever popular late nights text after a few drinks when you are feeling most emotional.
(4). Don't email them: Email is the silent enemy during this period of no communication. It is way too easy to draft a quick email [url=http://www.tagverts.com/barbour.php]barbour online shop[/url] and send it off without thinking about the overall consequences of your forever printed words.
(5). Don't instant message them: Instant messenger is just as bad as email, so in order to eliminate any sort of temptation you should delete them from your IM list as to avoid the instant gratification of communicating with your ex. Don't worry, you won't lose contact. If they really want to get hold of you, they still have your number.
(6). Don't send them a letter: Does anyone really send letters anymore? Skip this one.
(7). Remove all social media footprints: It would be wise to eliminate any and all social media footprints or connections with your ex. The last thing you need during this phase of the breakup is to read a tweet about them out on a date, or see a picture of them doing body shots off of a bartender. Eliminate the temptation and go dark on the social media.
(8). Remove all pictures of them for easy access: Get rid of all their pictures. This includes hard copies as well as those pictures you have stored in your phone. You don't need the constant reminder. Don't worry this is only temporary. You can back everything up and leave them with someone you trust you're a viewing later on when you are more confident.
(9). Delete all old text messages: The same principle applies to text messages as to digital pictures. Delete them, or back them up and then delete them, but you need to get them out of your sight. Besides, what are you saving all those old text for anyway? When everything works out the way you plan, you will soon begin receiving new ones.
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As time went on and I passed the initial 30 days and had identified new habits, I changed her name to THE DEVIL. Now, every time she would call or text, I was reminded that being with her I was living in my own personal hell. These simple reminders set the tone and correct my thoughts.

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