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It's that time of year again. It's a time for food, family, and of course, holiday shopping. However, it's also that time of year where many parents disagree about who "gets" the children during the holidays.
Every year during the merry months of November and December, you'll see attorneys frantically running into family court with ex parte motions (emergency motions) asking Judicial Officers to intervene and decide which parent gets to spend a holiday with their child. This is truly one of [url=http://www.rtnagel.com/airjordan.php]nike air jordan pas cher[/url] the most unpleasant events in any family law Judge or attorneys' career. So, if you are a parent who is contemplating this [url=http://www.rtnagel.com/airjordan.php]jordan pas cher[/url] course of action, I'd strongly suggest you keep reading.
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A little peace during this holiday season will go a long way in maintaining stability and making your child feel loved!

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